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Lessons Learned from Being Broke

When I decided to quit teaching full-time to stay home with our boys, we knew the change purse would be a little lighter. Being rather stubborn, this did not deter me. Within a month, I went from working as a teacher from 7:30-4:30 (plus many night and weekend hours) to staying home and making homemade baby food, frequenting the public library,  and going on play dates.

My life as a total stay-at-home mom did not last very long. We quickly realized I was going to at least have to work part-time if we were planning on feeding our children. My one writing gig at the time was fun but not very lucrative. I conjured up my service industry skills which had been sleeping soundly since college. Waiting tables worked for a while, but I was praying for something more conducive to our family’s schedule.

Luckily, within weeks of that first frustrated prayer, two opportunities came my way, both were in the field of education and both allowed me to work from home (one was teaching an online course at Western Carolina University, the other auditing paperwork for the school system), so I worked during the boys’ naps and after they went to bed. Since then, I’ve worked a number of jobs including part-time teaching (online and in person), freelance writing, auditing, and blogging.

It’s been kind of crazy and there have been months where by day 20, we are alternating between hot dogs and pinto beans with cornbread. I could do without the hot dogs, but I’m not complaining about the latter.

Despite being rather broke, I’ve learned some important lessons along the way.

1). Whether you’re staying home full-time with your children, working part-time, or working full-time, all are extremely hard for different reasons.

2). If you receive a restaurant gift card during a time when your budget is manageable, don’t use it. It may just come in handy at a later date. The other day, we found a gift card that had been a Christmas gift. After eating at home for two weeks straight, we were super excited to to have someone else do the cooking, serving, and cleaning up.

3). Don’t stress out if your children aren’t “stimulated” enough. My children actually like staying home and playing in their own yard. I’m always the one who tries to constantly book our schedule. The other day they played with three sticks, water, and a bucket of soil for two hours.

4). Visiting the grandparents is fun, entertaining, and cost-effective. We can always find something fun and exciting to do, especially when my dad is a collector, my mom loves to play Elvis music, and Todd’s mom has a golf cart and several teenage/young adult cousins who love to play.

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5). Go on an “adventure.” This is what my four-year old calls it when we go on a walk off the beaten  path. A couple of weeks ago, we walked down to the empty fairgrounds which is near our  house and found an antique tractor. The boys played on it for thirty minutes straight.

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6). Lastly, though the hubs and I have been fretting over the budget lately, the boys have obviously gone unscathed. As long as we’re together and creatively finding new things to do, they’re as happy as can be.

The cheesy adage, “the best things in life are free,” is true after all. With that being said, however, I am certainly ready to give up hot dogs, especially when “mechanically separated” is part of the ingredient list.

 

September 15, 2013 2:56 pm susannabarbee Filed Under: Adult Joys and Sorrows, Feel Good Stories

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  1. 1

    Christy Garrett @ Uplifting Families says

    September 19, 2013 at 9:57 am

    Children don’t need lots of stuff to make them happy. They rather spend time playing with their siblings or mom and day. This is an excellent post, thank you for sharing these great tips.

    • 2

      susannabarbee says

      September 19, 2013 at 8:28 pm

      I’m glad you enjoyed the post. I agree, children prefer time with their loved ones over toys. They intrinsically prefer meaningful attention over material items. They’re amazing little beings!

  2. 3

    Parenting with Parents says

    September 30, 2013 at 9:28 pm

    This post is great! Staying at home is not easy on the bank account but it teaches you and your children to be happy with even the simplest things! Great job!!

    • 4

      susannabarbee says

      October 1, 2013 at 5:58 am

      Thank you, and I completely agree!

  3. 5

    [email protected] says

    October 1, 2013 at 10:37 pm

    Kids do enjoy just playing. Believe me once they start school your time is filled with activities and running all over creation. Enjoy this simple time. You’ll never get it back once they get a bit older.

    • 6

      susannabarbee says

      October 2, 2013 at 5:49 am

      Very true! I am so enjoying this stage of motherhood. It’s loud but wonderful.

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